Hearthfire Furniture missing and the option to move to the houses not showing up

[thenate1200]

I have the three hearthFire homes built and I do not have the option to move my family whom consists of Yoslda, Francois Beaufort and Runa Fair-Shield when I speak to Yoslda but it appears with my children. Also a bug has occurred might be because I built everything too fast but furniture does not appear even tho I built it only in Windstad Manor.  I am also being told to I need to leave my own home.